Want to know how to give a girl a squirting orgasm? How to make her feel good with your hands? How to stimulate her G-spot, A-spot and Deep-spot? No worries- I’ll show you how in this article and video. In case you’re wondering, I actually get laid- a lot.
Unlike most people talking about this stuff. Whether you are already pretty damn experienced or just starting out- knowing how to please a lady with your hands is a great skill to have and there will be some gems in here for even the more experienced amongst you reading this. Prevent average sex by taking charge of your sex life- I mean that.
Before we go into the juicy stuff I want to cover two essential principles first that you need to keep in mind when fingering a girl ‘internally’ namely: pussy dynamics and movement vs pressure. Let me explain.
Principle #1-Pussy Dynamics
Pussy dynamics are the signals she (her pussy) will give to you while you are fingering and changing your approach based on that. The signals could mean two things:
- “This feels good”.
- “Please do something different”.
When you are fingering a girl there will always be a ‘dialogue’ between her pussy and your hand and/or fingers. This ‘dialogue’ as I like to call it, is basically the direct ‘feedback’ you’ll get when fingering a girl.
- If you are doing something she enjoys- her pussy will let you know.
- If you do something she doesn’t enjoy- nothing will happen.
Being in the moment and able to read those subtle signals is a nice skill to have I’ve found when it comes to fingering a girl. So what does it mean? It simply means that instead of jamming your fingers in (I hope this isn’t you) you slowly MASSAGE your way into her pussy by massaging her pelvic floor muscles, her side walls, and the upper wall of the vagina. When you are ‘doing good’ she will let you know (subconsciously) and her pussy will give some signals that ‘it feels good and you can go in deeper’. The most important ‘signals’ I’ve found are these:
- You feel a fast twitch or contraction- it generally means: “that feels really good baby- please continue/go deeper”.
- She makes a sudden movement- it generally means: ”baby please do something different, this doesn’t feel good (enough)”.
Based on these signals you ‘adjust your approach’. Women as we all know, need a little ‘buildup’ so take your time and warm her up by MASSAGING every inch’ so she is good to go. That’s what’s pussy-dynamics is all about.
Principle #2-Movement Vs Pressure
The deeper you go the better it is to apply some pressure and focus less on movement. Generally speaking- the vast majority of the nerve endings will be around the entrance of her vagina. So the deeper you go, the less sensitive her pussy will be with the exception of some ‘hotspots’ (G-Spot, A-spot, and Deep-spot).
Because her pussy will be less sensitive the deeper you go, doing ‘come here motions’ and shit like that won’t work. She needs some pressure. By pressure I don’t mean as if to press that big red button launching an Atom bomb while you got Kremlin on standby- I mean you use common sense and apply some pressure. Think of it like this:
- Your tongue has a lot of nerve endings so kissing (movement) feels good.
- Your lips are less sensitive so a biting will also feel good (pressure).
Makes sense? Onward to stimulating her G-spot, A-spot and Deep-spot. You might be wondering…
Where EXACTLY Can I Find the G-Spot, A-Spot and Deep-spot?
I’ve drawn out a diagram for you with the blue lines representing the sensitive areas (the hotspots). I’ll be covering each one in depth and show you how to stimulate these areas (or at least how I always stimulate them with good results).
Generally you’ll be able to find each area the following way: G-spot Will feel like a rough patch of skin about 1-2knockles in on the ‘upper’ side of her vaginal walls. For most girls it’s located more to the right but some have the tissue sticking out more to the left.
A-spot Generally feels silky and smooth. Locate it by sliding your index and middle finger in (keep in mind: pussy dynamics) and pushing down with one hand right behind her pubic until you feel this ‘angle’ going downward.
Deep-spot It feels smooth and silky just like the A-spot. Locate it by sliding your index and middle finger in pushing down and going all the way in. I have average sized hands and I can still reach it generally speaking so you should have no problems ‘getting there’- especially if you are the nephew of Jimmy Hendrix*. *Jimmy had big ass hands- I kid you not.
A Word On Ass-gasms
It’s the back of the Deep-spot. If you take a girl in the ass you will be stimulating the BACK of her DEEPSPOT. For some reason people claim this to be some new magical spot and their ignorance is annoying to say the least. Because the inner linings and walls between her rectum (butt) and deep-spot are very thin you will be hitting and stimulating that sensitive hotspot from the other side. This is the reason girls like anal sex- don’t you girls?
Fingering the G-spot
A lot of misconceptions seem to be out there when it comes to squirting and G-spot stimulation. I’m here to create clarity and settle this once and for all. The G-Spot (Graffenburg spot) is basically the back of the entire clitoral and urethral network. Though studies such as one of the Masters & Johnson studies regarding sexuality and anatomy weren’t sure if there actually is such a thing as a ‘G-spot’ I’ noticed that 90% of girls LOVE it when you stimulate this spot the so I’m reclaiming the existing of the G-spot.
The G-spot is essentially a tube of erectile spongy tissue around her entire urethra called the urethral sponge as shown in the beautifulPicasso like drawing below I made for you:
That explains its name: g-SPOT but we now know that it’s not just a ‘spot. Knowing this will serve two purposes:
- You will know how to stimulate her G-spot better.
- You can make her squirt more easily.
Things I Usually Do
There are a lot of things you can do to stimulate a girls G-spot but to make it easy for you I’ve made some pictures of what I often do and have great results (if you wanna call it that) with:
#1- Vertical push on her G-Spot & Rubbing.
#2- Sliding Around her Urethral Sponge.
#3- Massaging her G-spot.
#4- ‘Grabbing’ her Pubic Bone & Moving Up and Down.
‘How to make a girl squirt’ is what you often read. Let’s make a distinction here real quick women can:
- Squirt (think showerhead).
Or they can:
- Gush (think dripping).
In most cases, women won’t SQUIRT- at least not initially. That is because they really need to PUSH out the fluid and it takes some practice. So in most cases- she will first gush. Let me tell you my experience & thoughts on making girls squirt (had a couple that were big squirters, some gushers, and some that were as dry as the Mohavi desert).
Often the G-Spot is associated with squirting. And for good reason- a girl who is in touch with her pussy and comfortable with a guy who knows how to stimulate her properly might squirt- even if it’s just a little bit of fluid that comes out (which is usually the case in the beginning) Squirting is a skill that- just like any other skill- takes some practicing.
Beyond stimulating a girl, making her feel comfortable (with you) and REALLY warming her up there is not much you can do. In the end in order to squirt she needs to:
- Be comfortable with you (establish strong emotional connection).
- Be super warmed up (massage her-especially her pelvic area).
- Be extremely aroused (finger her a bit- mind pussy-dynamics).
- Be stimulated the right way (use the techniques explained earlier).
- Have a strong mind-pussy connection (good sexual experiences on her part).
- ’Push’ the fluid out (doing reverse kegels’).
If any of these is missing- it won’t happen- ever. Making her feel comfortable is a big one by the way. If she feels inhibited in ANY way it won’t happen. You need to create a strong connection with the girl and make her feel really good if you want to share this experience with her. Some tips to make her feel relaxed:
- Let her know you aren’t afraid of bodily fluids (tell her).
- Make sure she pees before sex (so her bladder is empty).
- Give her a sensual massage (and take your time- after all, she’s beautiful).
Massaging her and warming her up is super important. You need to focus on ‘loosening up’ her entire pelvic region in particular- everything needs to be warmed up if you want to make her feel good.
A Word on Bladder Infections Happen When She Doesn’t Push the Fluid Out. Something I also want to mention: bladder infections. Girls often suffer from bladder infections and though it can be a result of a wide variety of causes it could be because she was close to squirting but ‘held back’ PUSHING the fluid BACK in the urethra. She needs to PUSH THE FLUID OUT AS YOU ARE FINGERING HER G-SPOT. Both of you need to LET GO and let that animalistic side surge.
IMPORTANT: Squirting is NOT Urine A lot of people think that when a women squirts she is urinating. This is a lie for three reasons:
- The fluid comes out the Skene glands and not the urethra itself.
- The fluid itself contains more glucose (which is why it will taste sweet ).
- It smells different.
Scientists are still not entirely sure how the process works exactly but we do know that the fluid has a different consistency, smells different, tastes different and comes out a different ‘exit’.
When a girl goes to the bathroom after sex to ‘pee’ it could mean she was close to squirting- whether it was a little or a lot doesn’t matter. This is because, as I showed you earlier, her G-Spot (which you stimulate when you want her to squirt) is close to her bladder and applying pressure on her bladder and urethral sponge will make it feel as if you is about to pee.No worries though- all is good.
Fingering her A-Spot
The A-spot is a very sensitive ‘hotspot’ on the ‘upper’ side of her vagina, right above her cervix. It can be difficult to find it if you never ‘looked’ for it but in my experience about 50% of the girls really enjoy it when you stimulate this spot and they can orgasm from it pretty damn hard. Because the A-spot is deeper within her vagina it is a bit less sensitive so when stimulating this spot we need to start applying some pressure as I explained earlier.
We can still combine some movement with pressure though to get the best of both worlds. In most cases you will need to PUSH DOWN her belly a bit- or to be exact, the area just behind her pubic bone. This is because the spot is deeper and it can be a bit difficult to reach it if you have smaller hands.
Watch for the Cervix
You don’t wanna hurt her do you? Most women won’t appreciate it if you hit her cervix because this can be painful for her. Be careful- the A-spot (and Deep-spot) and ‘above’ and ‘below’ her cervix so you need to be extra careful not to hit it with your fingers. Go in slow and if you feel something ‘harder’ than that is her cervix you are in the wrong place. Proceed with caution.
Hitting Her A-Spot When You Are Inside When you are fucking her it can be very nice if you push down on her belly while you slide in really deep because you can hit her A-spot better. It’s just a little ‘trick’ I found and I actually enjoy doing it a lot and so do the women so try it out next time you are getting jiggy.
How to Finger Her A-spot I hate the word ‘technique’. Nonetheless, I want to show you how I often stimulate the A-spot. It’s best to watch the video but if you can’t watch it right now you can still checkout these pictures & descriptions:
#1- Sliding & Applying Pressure.
#2- Massaging & Applying Pressure.
Fingering the Deep-spot
The Deep-spot is maybe the most sensitive ‘hotspot’ with the exception of her clit located deep in her vagina, below her cervix, on the ‘lower’ side of her vagina. I’m not gonna lie, reaching this spot with your hands can be difficult if you have average sized hands. If this is the case- just get as close as possible. I’ve seen videos of girls talking about the deep-spot and they often joke that that is where the vacations, cars and free suits are.
A guy that rocks their world knows how amazing it can feel to a woman if she fingers/fucks her deep-spot. Personally it was a big epiphany for me to see how sensitive girls are when you stimulate the deep-spot. Pretty much every women whom I’m fingered this way really liked it and some came pretty hard from just stimulating the deep-spot alone- but not all of them.
As I often says- every girl/woman is different so what ‘works’ for one might not ‘work’ for the other and that’s cool.
Life would be pretty fucking boring if it would be the same every time. What I often did was something along the lines of stimulating the A-spot- because they are basically the same except the deep-spot is BELOW her cervix (unless she has a tilted uterus but hardly any woman has that so no worries).
#1- Sliding & Applying Pressure.
So there you have it- a tutorial on how to finger a girl and stimulate her G-spot, A-spot, and Deep-spot. As I said before this is all based on my PERSONAL experience so always be critical and see for yourself what works and what doesn’t.
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